From Rachel Toor
To our friends in Utah: know that we are thinking about you as you do the hard work to provide strength and comfort for your communities. To everyone else: what comes next is going to be challenging and scary. Let me know if there are ways we can help support you.
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In April 2023, when The Sandbox was just a twinkle in the eyes of my erstwhile work wife Doug Lederman and me, we found ourselves at a dinner at the ACE annual meeting with a doughnut box of presidents and chancellors.
One of them, a brash guy in his second year on the job I immediately felt comfortable treating like a brother, said, “I have a house with a big table. I’d like to host dinners like this, but I don’t know who would be interested in coming.”
Last week we had our first official Sandbox Roundtable, co-hosted by still-brash Jonathan Koppell at Montclair State University. We dined with 10 presidents from a buffet of institutions on campus in the Yogi Berra Museum, where the walls are festooned with Yogi-isms like, “When you see a fork in the road, take it.” During the tour, a president leaned over and whispered to me, “That’s a good motto for leaders.” Better to decide than to dither.
President Koppell often accuses me of hating when presidents brag about their achievements. I have to smack him down gently correct him. Nope. I love it when people come into the IHE office to tell us about the wonderful happenings on their campuses. And I do hate it that we don’t cover happy stories and highlight best practices. It’s a tragedy that there are so few places where presidents, especially from diverse institutions, can get together to share ideas and think collaboratively.
What I don’t like, however, is the inability to drop the cheerleader pom-poms and think beyond your own walls when you’re with peers or talking about the broader landscape. I don’t like it when every sentence a president utters in front of colleagues starts with “What I’ve managed to do here is …”
So I teed up a question for the group. As a writer, I am motivated by envy. I love reading books or essays I wished I’d written. So I asked: What innovation at another institution makes you jealous? What cool thing do you wish you could copy?
We didn’t get very far (conversational drift is real) but this Brady Bunch/Breakfast Club got real and reflective about the attacks on higher ed and how we got to where we are now and talked candidly about successes and failures, doubts and concerns. We heard about being grilled testifying in front of Congress, leading an institution back from the edge of closure, and innovative ideas about what “college” might be in the future, and discovered a boatload of fun facts about each other.
Among the things I heard this week from the attendees was that one left “excited and inspired to lead,” and another wrote, “We don’t get enough time to connect with other presidents and just speak candidly. I felt like given time, I could be friends with some of them and that’s what we really need: a way to connect and build friendships.” I did a little matchmaking and connected that president with an attendee from a completely different type of institution. I suspect it will be the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
I’ll bring back the prompt about envy at future Sandbox events.
Which are coming soon. Next month, at the US Universities Summit, we’ll have Sandbox Rroundtable sessions for our Insiders. You’ll have to RSVP, and there will be no baseball, no wine. (Sorry.) If you have ideas about what should be on the table to discuss at these small Chatham House–ruled sessions, bring them on.
Speaking of bringing it on, we got a lot of feedback on the issue of who is a “nontraditional” president. It’s great to get conversations rolling here in the safety of The Sandbox. I’ve shared some responses below.
And I reached out to see how peeps were feeling about the coming storm of who knows what fresh hell the new academic year. Here are some of those responses as well. (I am pleased to tell you that at least one president was feeling good enough to push back on my characterization of what was in store.)
Presidents, please continue to reach out to me with questions, comments, and criticism (and even compliments for your anonymous peers) and know that we want your contributions.